I came across this…
“Be careful who you date
Some people ain’t looking for love
They’re looking for help”
Then it reminded me of (Wo)Man’s inbuilt selfish nature and the extent it can push him (or her)..
Most people need help with their
Low self esteem.
And instead of coming to you in all honesty, they come under the guise of love and what not? Next thing you are caged into the dating game – you might even stupidly fall in love and remain at their mercy.
I’m a strong believer of “stating true intentions”
If you want to ask God for a Car, it’s better to ask in clear terms. Instead of saying “you need a medium to assist people who have transportation problems” – you might end up a bus driver.
Oh.. and someone will ask, “if you love someone, won’t you help them?” – F@#k NO.. if you love someone stick to what you started with – Love them. Help the less privileged on the street.
You can’t be helping your chic with that Gucci bag or helping your Guy with that quality b#$@ @#$.
That’s not “Help” – I don’t know what it is, I don’t care either.
When you see someone who needs help, you need a good heart to assist – you don’t need that thing called “Love”.
Whatever you do should have no atom of emotion attached to it – it should either be gratitude or discretion.
Brothers and sisters, don’t date the wrong person. Don’t be caged into compulsory “helpership”.
Every religion provides a spiritual helper for their subscribers.
Some even believe they have guardian Angels.
That should do.
Let them access that one.
Face your front